[image from the Gospel Art library]

The carrot in LDS theology is the promise of exaltation. We inherit kingdoms, thrones, principalities and powers. We rule and reign in the House of Israel forever. We become gods, creators of worlds, and architects of existence.

Pretty nifty.

But think of all that we would give up. 

Real Friends. People with lots of power, even in this mortal realm, don’t really have friends. They have sycophants and followers. If you have authority and control over someone else, you can be friendly with them. But friends … friends are those people who call you on it when you’re out of line and being a jerk. Friends see you at your lowest point and accept you for who you are. Friends are equals; they see you as an equal, and you treat them as an equal. Imagine giving up the chance to be in equal relationships for the sake of power.

Imperfections and Flaws. Imagine never being able to make a mistake. Or never being able to admit to a mistake. Even if you do screw up, your sycophants will find a way to justify it. They’ll turn morality into a pretzel before allowing you to have a flaw and be wrong. Being up on a pedestal is a real balancing act. Don’t ever slip.

Does God have friends? Does God ever wish that he could admit he totally got something wrong? Does God have a place where he can just exist, and take a break from being God? Being around people who don’t need you to be on your best behavior and in charge all the time is necessary to decompress and get your perspective back. 

The best leaders (who are not necessarily the most rich and powerful leaders) have a leadership style that lets them be part of the team. They can accept feedback, give credit for ideas to others, admit when they made a mistake, change their minds, trust people without micromanaging them, and take their vacation days. This allows and encourages everyone else on their team to also act like human beings.

Dictators. Authoritarians. God. Anyone surrounded by yes-men and followers has a warped and curated view of themselves, others, and the impact of their dictates on real people. There’s a reason God isn’t right here on earth where we can ask him questions and challenge his dictates and doctrine. The closest thing to God on earth is a dictator. 

Questions:

  1. What sort of person would you have to be, to aspire to be obeyed without question? 
  2. Has anyone else noticed that the temple sealing ceremony is all about power and glory and doesn’t say a word about happiness?
  3. When you think of eternal progression, do you expect/hope to gain power over others? What do you hope to progress in, if it isn’t Godly power and authority?
  4. Would you want to spend lots of time with someone who is never wrong and who never wants you to disagree? I mean, we’re all supposed to worship God, but wouldn’t it be weird to spend a lot of time with him?