The Church recently published a new essay called Religion vs Violence. In this essay, there is the following about Nephi chopping off Laban’s head. From the Church’s web site:

One potentially unsettling example of violence in the scriptures is the Lord’s command to Nephi to kill Laban in 1 Nephi 4. Elder Dale G. Renlund taught: “No simple explanation of this episode is completely satisfactory, but let me highlight some aspects. The episode did not begin with Nephi asking if he could slay Laban. It was not something he wanted to do. Killing Laban was not for Nephi’s personal benefit but to provide scriptures to a future nation and a covenant people. And Nephi was sure that it was revelation—in fact, in this case, it was a commandment from God.” Even so, it was a rare exception. “Thou shalt not kill” continued to be the standard for Nephi and all of God’s people.

I find it interesting that Renlund did not condemn the murder, but acknowledged implicitly that is was murder, but a “rare exception” to the “do not kill” commandment. So he is justifying murder, even if it’s rare, it’s ok to do.

He says, “Nephi was sure it was a revelation,” but the church provides no ways to be sure if we’re receiving revelation. He claims that “in fact, in this case, it was a commandment from God.” Says who????. The victors get to write the history. All we have is what Nephi claims, but what if he was wrong? Think of the people who have been abusing their kids check all of these boxes, including being “sure” they’re receiving a commandment from God. 

How does Renlund’s explanation sound when applied to modern times? I found the below comment from another Mormon forum that was discussing the new Church essay

“There is no simple explanation to Lori Daybell killing her children. The episode did not begin with Lori asking if she could slay her kids. It was not something Lori wanted to do. Killing her children was not for Lori’s personal benefit but to release her children from being dark, into the eternities. And Lori was sure that it was revelation–in fact, in this case, it was a commandment of God”

This does not sound as nice when applied to today. We could add Ruby Franke, Chad Daybell, Ron and Dan Lafferty, and many others who were sure it was “in fact… a commandment from God” During Lori Daybell’s trial, it was presented that she sent a text to her brother Alex just two days before he shot and killed Lori’s husband with the following words: “I would be like Nephi, I am told — and so will you.” This was followed by testimony that Nephi is a revered figure in the Book of Mormon who is commanded by God to slay another man.

Sure, one could argue that ethics can be situational. For example, few people would consider honesty to be an absolute moral principle in this specific setting: you are a Jew trying to evade Nazi persecution and genocide. You would feel that life is a higher order good than lying when you tell the SS that you are a Catholic. But in the hands of the delusional, you get the situational ethics of Nephi, Abraham, and Joseph Smith. These represent a fundamentally flawed hierarchy of values that can horrify the non-believer.

What would have happened if Renlund decided to fix the situation?  He could have just said, “Murder is wrong and you should never do it, even if you think God is telling you to.” Is that an unreasonable expectation to have of the leaders of the church? What are the implication to the Church if a leader came out and said this? Is it throwing Nephi under the bus?

Is the Church prioritizing apologetics over people’s safety? What would be the fallout if the First Presidency came out with a statement that said “Murder is always wrong” ?

Your thoughts?