Today, let’s talk about life-changing decisions and the times we wish someone could tell us what to do. (I’ve been gone for a few months because my brain was overwhelmed with one of those huge life-changing decisions about my career.)

The Holy Ghost and Personal Revelation

I was raised to pray and seek guidance from the Holy Ghost. The teaching was that if I obeyed gospel teachings, I would be worthy to receive the promptings of the Holy Ghost to answer my prayers and guide me towards righteous decisions and Heavenly Father’s will for my life. This answer would come in the form of a burning to in my bosom, peace, or other feeling that would confirm which path I should follow. 

Personal revelation is a three step process: (1) formulate the question through study and thought; (2) ask the question in prayer; and (3) recognize and understand the answer when it comes.

Essentially, following the guidance of the Holy Ghost is a divine game of Hot or Cold. You remember hot and cold, right? This was one of the most popular Primary Sharing Time games in the only ward in which I was a Primary teacher. One child would leave the room while the Primary leader hid a toy somewhere. Then the seeker child would come back in the room and the other children would yell “hot” or “cold” depending on whether or not the seeker child was getting closer to, or farther away from, the hidden object. The seeker child can’t hold still and wait for directions; they have to be moving in order to receive hints on whether they’re going the right way. Once the other kids were yelling, “You’re burning up!” the seeker child knew that he was on the brink of finding the object.

Oliver Cowdery played a divine version of this game called Burning or Stupor.

7 Behold, you have not understood; you have supposed that I would give it unto you, when you took no thought save it was to ask me.

8 But, behold, I say unto you, that you must study it out in your mind; then you must ask me if it be right, and if it is right I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right.

9 But if it be not right you shall have no such feelings, but you shall have a stupor of thought that shall cause you to forget the thing which is wrong; D&C 9:7-9.

The other feeling that signals an answer from the Holy Ghost is peace.

22 Verily, verily, I say unto you, if you desire a further witness, cast your mind upon the night that you cried unto me in your heart, that you might know concerning the truth of these things.

23 Did I not speak peace to your mind concerning the matter? What greater witness can you have than from God? (D&C 6:22-23)

I have had some amazing experiences in seeking the guidance of the Holy Ghost and receiving inspiration. My Relief Society lessons on the topic of personal revelation were thick, meaty tomes of how to put yourself in tune with the Spirit and how to recognize promptings. I honestly didn’t understand when people said they couldn’t tell the difference between their own feelings and the guidance of the Holy Ghost. [fn 1]

I’ve also had times when I didn’t get an answer, and some times when I thought I got an answer and it turned out badly later. Sometimes, divine guidance is really just your own personal preferences dressed up to look like they’re more authoritative than they really are.

The Holy Ghost is not reliable. Anyone who tells you it is, and seeks to explain away the trickiness in getting spiritual guidance, has an agenda. This doesn’t mean it’s wrong to seek spiritual guidance — but you do have to acknowledge the limitations.

ChatGPT and Crowd-Sourced Answers

Nowadays, kids who don’t go to Church, like my kids, are hearing about this thing that has all the answers to life, the universe, and everything: ChatGPT. ChatGPT and its cousins belong to a family of human inventions called generative AI, or artificial intelligence.

I had a conversation with my son in which I found out that he thinks ChatGPT is always right because it has access to everything on the internet. I’m not sure I got through to him that the AI that powers ChatGPT is not really intelligent, it’s a word picker. It uses an algorithm to create grammatically correct, plausible-sounding sentences, not reveal truth. A lot of what is on the Internet is wrong. ChatGPT has no way to tell the difference between facts, inaccuracies, someone’s dream they described, prejudice and bias, and outright lies.

Google AI is embarrased about this and doesn’t want to talk about it.

ChatGPT is basically an amalgamation of us. Everything we put onto the Internet created a hive mind and then we prodded it into a simulation of conversation. Personally, I don’t like it and don’t use it. If someone says they asked ChatGPT and ChatGPT said … I tune it out. I’m talking/writing to you, a human being, not an algorithm, and if you bring an algorithm into the conversation, I’m not wasting my time.

But it has its uses. ChatGPT does a decent job of summarizing stuff. Here’s the AI overview when I asked google if I should quit my job:

It isn’t telling me what to do, it’s telling me what factors go into my decision. That’s useful for studying it out in my mind. It gives some clarity and breaks down an overwhelming situation into manageable chunks.

Helpful. But not authoritative. ChatGPT isn’t human and never will be.

I really wanted to read this article, but I don’t have a WSJ subscription. The teaser line, though, sounds almost like worthiness. You know — the kind of worthiness that helps you get answers from the Holy Ghost. Know all the rules and you’ll have all the answers. If ChatGPT thinks at all, that’s what it thinks. We know that doesn’t make for a real, human life. ChatGPT is just words — words and rules. And that’s not enough.

This poem was written by Keith Leonard and published at Waxwing, a literary journal.

ChatGPT or the Holy Ghost?

If you have a big decision to make, are you going to ask ChatGPT or the Holy Ghost?

  1. What type of decisions send you seeking for guidance?
  2. What type of decisions do you make on your own?
  3. What type of decisions do you want someone else to make for you so when it goes wrong, it isn’t your fault?
  4. Are you more of a ‘words’ person or a ‘feelings’ person? Do you want to be able to eloquently explain your reasons? Or hold onto a feeling of certainty without exposing it to anyone else’s evaluation/criticism?
  5. What source would you trust above your own judgment? Meaning, if either ChatGPT or the Holy Ghost told you to do something you hadn’t considered before, or didn’t want to do, would you do it?
  6. When would you want to use one of these non-human options, and when would you want to talk to a human being?


Footnote 1: Someday I will also post on why I don’t want the guidance of the Holy Ghost anymore. I deliberately chose to stop praying about big decisions. I don’t ask ChatGPT either. I fly solo – no net, no safety, no way to pass the buck if it falls apart.