A friend of mine on Facebook recently made the following comment.

I’ve often thought about the “first dilemma” of the Book of Mormon being the Nephi/Laban slaying. It has struck me for decades that those who continue reading the book and ultimately embrace Mormonism have passed over a threshold where the end justifies the means. I think it could be argued that this “rite of passage” can give weight to all manner of problems, evils, and indignities from the Mountain Meadows Massacre to the genocide associated with the migration of pioneers into the American West.

Regardless of truthfulness of the story of Laban [1], if the person sitting next to you in church believes the Book of Mormon is true, and has no problem with God commanding Nephie to kill Laban, do you feel safe sitting next to this person? What if God commanded them to kill you?

How does this “first dilemma” of the Book of Mormon manifest itself today? While the Mountain Meadows Massacre happened a long time ago, Lori Daybell was convicted of killing her kids just this year. Knowing the reasons behind the killings (she thought they were zombies), is if far fetched that she and her husband thought “It is better that one man should perish than that a nation should dwindle and perish in  unbelief person should live inhabited by a zombie” ? In Lori’s final words before being sentenced, she said her kids spirits have visited her and are happy.

“I know for a fact that my children are happy and busy in the spirit world,”

“Tylee has visited me. She is happy … and free now,”

“Jesus Christ knows that no one was murdered in this case,”

words of Lori Vallow Daybell at her sentencing

Is it a stretch after hearing her speech, to think that she believe she was doing God’s will?

What are your thoughts on the killing of Laban as told in the Book of Mormon? What problems do you see coming from believing that God can command somebody to kill another person? Is this problem of the “end justifying the means” worse in the LDS church than it is in other religions?

[1] Much has been written about the improbability of beheading Laban, the amount of blood that would have been on all the clothes than Nephi donned, and why a simple stab through heart wouldn’t suffice.