My family was never big drinkers. My parents would have a drink before dinner and some wine during the holidays, but never drink wine with dinner. So when I joined the Church, it was pretty easy to give up drinking alcohol because it was never that important to me. Even in college, I was a bit of lightweight in that department.

But after I joined the church, anytime I mentioned drinking, my Mother would almost always say “Well, you used to drink!” To which I always replied, “But I don’t now.”

I see this same pattern here on our blog and I’m sure it exists on other Mormon-oriented blogs. No matter what the topic, no matter what the object of the post, someone will bring up some Mormon history in an unfavorable light in order to level criticism at the Church. Whether it is the issue of Blacks and the priesthood, the role of women in the Church, the Mountain Meadows Massacre, polygamy, and the treatment of gays, to name a few.

It appears that, in the minds of some, no amount of progress, no changing of policy, practice, or the passage of time can atone for the perceived sins of the past.  Luckily, the Savior does not hold us to the same standard.

But what society, civilization or group of people could pass the same test? Could the Christian Church pass this test?  European nations? The Chinese? The Japanese?   The ancient Romans? The Jews? Anyone?

No, they could not. Each has a dark side to it along with the positives they have contributed to the world at large.

Imagine the 4th of July holiday where all we discussed were the atrocities the US inflicted upon the Native Americans, Slavery, the treatment of just about every ethnic group or the lawless old west? No celebration of the creation of this country which has afforded so much opportunity to people from all over the world for the past 200 plus years? We’d be shooting fireworks at each other.

Is it necessary to ignore history?  Of course not.  Those who do are doomed to repeat it, as the saying goes. But is it necessary to bring up the past shortcomings when speaking of the here and now? Usually not.

Most people would not like it done to them personally.  Unfortunately, some people are so bitter against the Church, it is their only way to fight back.

To me, that is sad on a number of levels.

Perhaps, it is time to celebrate the progress that has been made and the progress that will continue as a result of good people striving to make themselves better and thus the world around them benefits from that. Sure, there will be shortcomings and failures, but those are there as lessons to learn from and move on from.

Not dwell on nor not throw up in our faces.